Recovering From Multiple Affairs: Why It's Different From a Single Affair
Multiple affairs aren't just a worse version of one. Learn why the recovery process is different — and the 3 questions to ask before deciding to stay.
Should You Stay or Leave After an Affair? A Research-Backed Decision Framework
Wondering whether to stay or leave after an affair? This article breaks down the research-backed framework for deciding with clarity.
Can You Recover From an Affair Without Therapy? What the Research Actually Shows
Can you recover from an affair without therapy? This article breaks down what the research says — and when self-help isn't enough.
Can You Really Trust Again After an Affair? What the Neuroscience Says (Deep Dive)
Can you really trust again after an affair? In this article I break down the neuroscience of betrayal and how trust is actually rebuilt.
Trickle Truth After Infidelity: Why Your Partner Withholds Information After an Affair — and What Real Disclosure Looks Like
Is your partner giving you drips of information after an affair? Learn why unfaithful partners withhold — and what genuine disclosure really looks like.
How to Rebuild Sexual Intimacy After an Affair: 5 Stages Your Body Actually Needs
Your body shuts down after betrayal — even when you want to reconnect.
Why Emotional Affairs Are Harder to Get Over Than Physical Ones
Emotional affairs often hurt more than physical ones — and take longer to heal.
Is My Partner Still Lying? 6 Signs of Ongoing Deception After an Affair
How to tell if your partner is still lying after an affair.
“It Didn't Mean Anything” — Why That Phrase Hurts So Much (And What You Need to Hear Instead)
Why this phrase can be so hurtful, and why it probably meant something.
The First 30 Days After Discovering an Affair: A Survival Guide From a Couples Therapist
What to do and not do in the first month after discovering an affair.
Managing Intrusive Thoughts After an Affair: Why Your Brain Won't Let Go (And How to Help It)
How do you manage intrusive thoughts after an affair?
The TRUST Framework: A Couples Therapist's Step-by-Step Guide to Rebuilding Trust After Cheating
What is the TRUST framework for rebuilding trust after an affair?
5 Ways to Practice Transparency After Cheating (That Actually Rebuild Trust)
How transparent should you be after an affair?
Is Your Partner Actually Sorry? 5 Signs of Real Remorse After an Affair (Rebuilding After Infidelity Part 2)
Is your partner really remorseful? How to tell.
The 8 Habits of Highly Effective Couples
8 Critical Habits to Build in Your Relationship This Year from a couples therapist
Why Relationships Fail (And How to Rebuild Emotional Safety)
This is why relationships typically fail, based on research. Read here to understand how to avoid this in your own relationship.
How to Feel Confident Without Your Partner’s Constant Validation: A 7-Step Process
How to build rock solid confidence that doesn’t require your partner’s validation.
Earned Secure Attachment: How to Retrain Your Nervous System and Transform Your Relationship
How do you build Earned Secure Attachment in your relationship with your partner? It’s not easy, but it is possible if you follow these steps.
How to Build Emotional Attunement in Relationships (Even If It Doesn’t Come Naturally)
How do you really listen to your partner? This is called Attunement and it’s a really important relationship skill. This article will show you how to build the skill of Attunement even if you struggle with it now.
Should You Stay or Leave After an Affair? How to Know When It’s Worth Rebuilding
Should you stay in your relationship or break up after an affair? Here’s how to tell.